Mr. Daniel C. May, 83, passed away April 14th, at his residence. His daughter, Danielle was at his side as he passed peacefully.
A celebration of life will be held privately. In honor of Dan’s love for slot machines, Danielle’s family will be taking a special trip to the casino to celebrate his memory in true Dan fashion.
Dan was born February 9th, 1942, in Maspeth, Queens New York, the son of Charles May and Beatrice Pitera May. Later in life, he moved to Long Island, NY.
He shared many years of marriage with Joann Chubre May and family life, cherishing the memories they created together before going their separate paths.
Dan worked as an Arborist for many years and drove Taxi. After moving to Cape Vincent permanently in the early 2000’s, he owned and operated Dan’s Place, an antique shop, ‘talking turkey’ for over 20 years. Dan was the kind of man you couldn’t ignore—whether you loved him, argued with him, or both, you always knew where he stood.
He loved Scottish Terriers, having owned many of them throughout his life. He enjoyed traveling, casinos, Woodman’s Field Days in Boonville, drinking beer, and going on many cruises around the Caribbean and other parts of the world with his daughter, Danielle. Dan especially loved spending time with his grandkids – contributing to their work ethic they have today.
Surviving are two daughters, Danielle (Richie) Anchor, and Jilleen May (Dave Frazier), four grandchildren; and five great grandchildren: Daniel Anchor (Kristin), parents of Easton,
Victoria Anchor (Brian Grafstein)parents of Penelope and Josie, Ashley Anchor (Theodore Ebbing) and Angela Stevenson (Ivan), parents of Leon and Lucan.
His family and Scottish Terrier (Scotso) will miss him dearly.
In lieu of flowers and Dan’s love for Cape Vincent, donations may be made in Dan’s memory to The Cape Vincent Improvement League.
Donations can be mailed to:
PO Box 194
Cape Vincent, NY 13618
Checks should be made payable to the Cape Vincent Improvement League.
Arrangements are with the T.R. Jetty Funeral Home in Clayton.
Condolences can be made at trjetty.com
Marie & Dan Ebbing
We enjoyed conversations with your Dad, Danielle. He was a man of many talents and life experiences. Thank goodness his journey landed him in the Cape as your family has been so close to ours. Rest in Peace Dan, you will never be forgotten.
Sue Ann Tooker
So sorry to hear of your grandfathers passing….we also liked him. M
Our hearts go out to you and the rest of the family especially Mom…
Amy & Rob Farmer
Danielle , it was a pleasure knowing your dad and having great conversation. I’ll always remember when we stopped in to his store , he showed us every inch of the place and had plenty of stories behind each item . He certainly did instill great values in his family and grandchildren . Rest easy Dan !!
Darlene Wiley
Danielle, I’m so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing My all of your wonderful memories help to comfort you.
Dave n Sherry Reed
Rest in peace Danny May!!! You were one of a kind! We’ll always cherish your friendship and Witt… One could never ask for a better employee!! But more importantly a friend!!!!
Debby White and family!
Danielle and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your father, grandfather, great grandfather. father in law and friend. Sending prayers and hugs to all of you! May you rest in peace Dan!
Mary Titus
Danielle, So sorry to hear about your dad. He was a good man and I always enjoyed talking to him when our paths crossed.
Ashley & Teddy
Thank you for always being there for all of us – especially for Mom. Your strength and presence meant the world. We all love you and will miss you, Grandpapa❤️
– Your #2 granddaughter
Ted Ebbing
I’m grateful I had the chance to know him and be part of the wonderful family he created. Rest in peace, Grandpapa.
Angela stevenson
Rest in peace, Grandpapa. You will be deeply missed. I’m so thankful that Leon and Lucan had the chance to meet you, and that you and my mom shared such a special bond. We love you ❤️
Dan, Kristin & Easton
May our one of a kind, beloved Grandpapa rest easy. We are greatful you were part of our lives for this long, and to be able to meet your latest great grand baby! You’ll be greatly missed, but your love, and memories are infinite to us.