Patricia A. Patchen, 85, passed away Sunday, January 1, 2023, at home where she was under the care of her loving family and Hospice of Jefferson County.
Pat was born March 6, 1937, in Potsdam, the daughter of Leon Maine and Anne Chase Maine. She graduated from Carthage Central in 1955. Following graduation, she married Ira Patchen. The two purchased the family farm in LaFargeville where they raised their 8 children until their marriage ended in divorce. In 1982, she married Charles Lyman and after 10 years this marriage also ended in divorce.
She started her dispatch career with the City of Watertown in 1975, then transitioned to Jefferson County’s new 911 Dispatch system where she retired in 2002 after 26 years of service.
Pat was a lifetime member of the Depauville Fire Department and a Volunteer with the Thousand Islands Emergency Rescue Service (TIERS)., where she was a Level 1 EMT/Driver, and a communicant of the Depauville Methodist Church. While with TIERS she was well known for her “legendary” Thursday morning breakfasts including her “famous” homemade bread.
She enjoyed ceramics, traveling, gardening, sewing, reading, and most importantly spending time with her family. She also had a passion for volunteering as much as she possibly could.
Surviving are her children, Jo Anne Bruce of Lake Placid, Karen Verdegaal of Clayton, Donna (Travis Rogers) Patchen of LaFargeville, Michael (Jenny) Patchen of Clayton, Kevin (Richelle) Patchen of LaFargeville, Paul (Nancy) Patchen of Depauville, 15 grandchildren; 13 great-grandchildren; one sister, Martha Smith of Watertown; several nieces and nephews. Pat was also lucky to have an extended family with David and Christine Stark of Cape Vincent
Pat was predeceased by a son William Patchen, a daughter Debbie Patchen Henry, a grandson Jonathan Patchen, two sisters Helen Ormiston and Lucy Nunmaker, and a brother Harold Maine.
Calling hours will be held on Friday, January 6 from 2 to 5 pm at T R Jetty Funeral Home in Clayton. Chaplain Samuel P. Lundy will conduct a service at approximately 5:30pm following the calling hours at the Depauville Social Hall. A gathering will follow at the Hall. Burial will be private at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her name to Depauville Fire Department, P.O. Box 99, Depauville, N.Y. 13632, or T.I.E.R.S. P.O. Box 524, Clayton, N.Y. 13624 or their website tirescue.org.
The family would like to give a special thank you to Kristi Bushey, Courtney Hughes, Mary Patch, Cecelia Norfolk, and Hospice of Jefferson County.
Don Pastor
Dear Patchens,
I worked for several years with Pat. She was an excellent “dispatcher” as could be attested by all the others who worked alongside her. I know you will miss her greatly. As will her friends and all those who knew her.
Barbara Owens
My condolences to the Patchen family.
May she Rest in Peace.
Ginny Humphrey
JoAnn, I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Cliff Carr
So sorry to hear this. Pat was a nice lady, pleasant and professional at everything she did. She was an excellent dispatcher and was calm in trying situations. Her voice was a welcome sound to all law enforcement officers responding to serious incidents. Condolences to family.
Cindy Durant
To the Patchen family and friends, condolences to all. Your mother (Pat) was such a nice and caring woman. It was a pleasure to know her and your family.
jerry b flanders
Pat and her family were a great help to those of members of the Copenhagen Fire Department.Our deepest symapthies from the officers and members. May she rest in peace.
Jacinta Wood
Rest peacefully Pat. One of the nicest ladies I’ve ever met. Condolences to her family.
Jerry and Jacinta Wood
Connie Recor
Our sincere condolences to the Patchen family
Love Paul and Connie Recor and
Diana Delaney
Most sincere condolences to the Patchen family.
Scott and Paul Link
To the Patchen family,
So sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.
Gordon and Marissa Myers
Sorry for your loss.
Timothy B Campbell
Patchen Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. When I joined the fire dept. Pat, was one of the ladies that took me in under her wing. She look at me as one of her boys, and at times gave me that look of straighten up. She as well as all your family made me fell at home. Pat was someone I looked up to and respected very much. The world has lost a strong but yet gentle person. We are very sorry, she is at peace now.
The Campbell Family.
John Horr
Paul and Nancy. Our condolences on the passing of your Mother. Our prayers are with you and your family. John and Laurie Horr
Dalys Wells Montanye
To Patchen Family
I’m very sorry to hear about your mom. Cherish all the fond memories you all have of your mom and family.
God bless you all
Sending hugs to you all
Dawn Willmert
Patchen Family
Sorry for your loss.
RIP Pat
Carolyn L. ONeill
Deepest sympathy in the passing of your Mom. I pray the love of family & friends will provide you with comfort at this very hard time.C
Christine Stark
Patchen Family,
Pat was an amazing women, grandmother and friend. We remain forever grateful that you shared her with us.
Love and Prayers
The Entire Stark Family
Sheryl J Haller
So sorry for your loss. Your Mother was a wonderful lady and a great
Neighbor. Sending thoughts and prayers to the family during this difficult time.
mary e green
T HE ENTIRE PATCHEN FAMILY-WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!! MAY YOUR MEMO HELP GUIDE YOU THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME!!!
LOVE,
MARSHALL AND MARY GREEN
mary e green
T HE ENTIRE PATCHEN FAMILY-WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!!! MAY YOUR MEMORIES HELP GUIDE YOU THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME!!!
LOVE,
MARSHALL AND MARY GREEN
Amy Brennan Reed
So very sorry to hear about your mom. She was a kind woman who raised a great family…..so many memories of growing up with you all. Please know I am thinking of your whole family.
Sue and Gib Streets
To all of Pat’s family we wish peace on your sorrow. Trust on your good memories. Take care,
Sue and Gib Streets
Theresa Getter
My girls and I are so very sorry to hear of the loss of your mama. She was a great lady and had a good strong family to give her the love and support that she needed during her difficult days. our prayers will be with the whole family. May you rest in peace Pat
Marcia Rogers and Shannon Simmons
Sending love and prayers to the Patchen family at this very sad time. May the memories of your wonderful mom bring you peace and comfort.
Charles Stage
Sorry for your loss. May peace and comfort come in knowing that she led a wonderful life and left a beautiful family. May she rest in peace, GOD bless.